1 , bridesmaids want you to tell them your expectations
You want your bridesmaids to provide what help ? The easiest support adequate? Or do you want them to be able to participate in all decision-making processes throughout the wedding preparations ? Fill invitations, packaging candy whether these chores need help ? No matter what you want them to do , should advance and bridesmaids frank communication , so the other can not understand you need the most help place what .
2 , as soon as possible inform candidates bridesmaid friend
Compared to those who thought that will receive your wedding invitation colleagues more embarrassing is that this thought will be your bridesmaid friends . Once you have decided the bridesmaid list , tell us as soon as possible , so that you and your bridesmaids will not embarrassed in friends circle . If you do not want to hurt other people's feelings , keep this in mind , a true friend can understand your final decision.
3 , they want you to have the perfect dream wedding
Do not mere hypothetical judgment. Do you think someone could not afford to pay your girlfriend a fancy set of bridesmaid dresses , they decided not to choose her bridesmaids ? Understand bridesmaids economic conditions is important, but do not forget, as a friend , they all want you to have the perfect wedding. Do not be shy to communicate frankly and bridesmaids , tell them what makes you happiest .
4 , they hope you can respect bridesmaid duties
Bride at the time of allocation of tasks for bridesmaids , the best intentions of the other party to consider the actual situation . Your friends at the same time to help you , there are things that work and family on their own to deal with. At the same time , try to make each bridesmaid to play an equal amount of tasks . The most important to maintain a balance , in addition to the bridesmaids , your parents, relatives, friends and fiance can also help.
5 , bridesmaids hope you put them dressed
If you have a bridesmaid dress style for your fancy there are objections, it is best to reach a compromise , and re- selection . If the same bridesmaid dress does not fit all , you can develop a standard , such as color or skirt length , and then let the bridesmaids choose their own favorite dress accordingly . Even if there are differences in dress style , carefully dressed bridesmaids will still look glamorous .
6 , bridesmaids for their sake I hope you can
Running errands to help the bride bridesmaids group task indeed , but that does not mean you can arbitrarily dictate , the bridesmaids branch makes round and round. Whether it is to ask her to accompany you to try on wedding dresses, still packing 100 candy boxes , each of the bridesmaids before assigning tasks , first think about whether you will be for her to do so. Do not raise too much to ask bridesmaids .
7 , do not let the bridesmaids overhead is too large
For you as a bridesmaid in the process will spend their money , dress, makeup hair, bridal bachelor party , wedding gifts , and from transportation fees. Considering the economic situation for the bridesmaids , if necessary, can help. For example, you can tell your bridesmaids do not have to buy too luxurious wedding gift . You can also help the needy bridesmaid Cheap flights and hotels booked in advance .
8 , bridesmaids want to get a reasonable list of To Do
Bride wedding day should develop a list of responsibilities for all inventory in advance. Then consider whether there are other people willing or able to provide assistance, such as your brother and sister , aunt and venue staff. If the day of the occurrence of unexpected events , allowing staff to help prepare coordination , rather than push the task will fall to the bridesmaids .
9 , bridesmaids hope you still friends
This seems to be not enough to be a problem. However, some prospective brides upcoming wedding is easy to get carried away , often forget to take into account other people's feelings. And bridesmaids were dating , do not forget to talk about things other than the wedding , such as her recent work or appointments . Bridesmaids will appreciate you thinking about their lives and are willing to share with you.
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